Signs Your Ex Wants You Back
 A relationship is like a roller coaster ride. There are ups and downs, round and round,
forwards and backwards, and even sideways. Sometimes the ride is fun and exciting; sometimes it is boring; and
sometimes it is scary. Unfortunately, there are also times when the ride becomes too much to handle and you
just want to get off.
Getting off the ride doesn’t necessary mean the relationship is over. It could
mean that you need some time off to reassess the relationship and decide if you want to work at it or not. Once
separated, you or your ex may realize that you want to get back on that roller coaster. If your ex is in this situation and wants to work at the relationship once again, there are
certain signals to watch for.
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Contact
One of the sure fire signs that your ex wants you back is that they begin to contact
you via phone calls, text messages, emails, visits, surprise appearances, etc. This is a sign that your ex wants
you back because normally your ex would not reach out to you if they were still mad or did not want to reconcile
the relationship. Restoring communication indicates a desire to reconnect. Your ex is ready to get back on the
roller coaster.
Counseling
Another one of
the signs your ex wants you back is the proposal of going to counseling, whether it is together or alone. It shows
that your ex recognizes that the relationship has some difficulties and that going to a counselor may help resolve
some of those issues. A major step towards healing begins when one or both members of the relationship acknowledge
that there are problems that need to be worked on.
By seeking out the help of a counselor, your ex is affirming that they are
committed to making the relationship work. This also sends a strong message that your ex feels that the
relationship is worth pouring some time and money into, in hopes that this investment can provide a return of a
stronger and healthier relationship.
While there are many other signs that your ex wants you back, two obvious indicators are: 1) if they
start contacting you again or 2) if they recommend counseling. Either way, all the signs do not matter unless you
are ready to get back on that roller coaster. So, take this time off to reflect on the relationship and decide if
it is right for you. When you are ready, show your ex that you want them back too by contacting them and/or going
to counseling. That way, you can work on making the ride fun and exciting again for both of you.
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